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TMI - Mental

Posted by Queenie 30 September, 2008

What do you feel is the difference between sexy and erotic? Like most things, there is a fine line. Erotic being the wild and untamed side, sexy being the conservative. A chick making the guys stare is sexy. A chick making the guys’ girlfriends stare and then fantasize about them for days…that is erotic.

Do you believe there is one right person (i.e. soul mate) for you out there in the world, or that there can be many different potential mates that you could live blissfully with? I believe that you can find happiness anyplace that you look. But I do believe there are a select few people that you can connect with on the deeper levels. For the record, I didn’t believe in this until I met my hub. He and I literally share a brain and have been that way since before we met. To have a relationship with him completes who I am. I think that pretty much means soul mate.

Do you need to hear “I love you” or similar words on a regular basis from your partner? I don’t need to hear words as much as I need to be touched - mentally or physically. Both work just fine.

What feeling do you have the most difficulty expressing? Being in need. I always feel like a weakling with no brain when I have to rely on others.

What is worse - physical, mental or cyber cheating? Cheating to most, is when someone goes out away from the relationship and crosses some sort of line. I just don’t have lines. Our only rule, if we are gonna do it, we do it together. Sort of wipes out the need to cheat don’t you think?
Hub and I have an interesting dynamic. We both are tremendous flirts but we also know that no matter what, we belong with each other. He happens to love it when I can score us free drinks at the bar by flashing a smile or some cleavage. I happen to love knowing that I am not the only woman on the planet turned on by my wild man.

Bonus: The Kinsey scale attempts to describe a person’s sexual history or episodes of their sexual activity at a given time. It uses a scale from 0, meaning exclusively heterosexual, to 6, meaning exclusively homosexual. Where are you - TODAY - on the scale? I am always a 3. Where ever the fun takes us, that is where we are. Sex is about feeling good . Period. Sometimes that is with women, sometimes with men.

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Comments
September 30, 2008

Good answer on the cheating question….good approach

Marty E.s last blog post..TMI Tuesday

Posted by Marty E.
September 30, 2008

you are just a sex monger, and you know it! that’s one of the great things about you and your hubs. you two are so open and free!

monicas last blog post..Check out this vid!

Posted by monica
September 30, 2008

I love the openness. Very hard to get that from people these days. Everyone is so uptight. And if you’re too open then you’re a freak then. I like being a freak then.

Posted by MikeC
September 30, 2008

Such great answers! It’s surprising to me how many of us would rather feel it than hear it.

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